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As
a newly married couple or even those who are celebrating their
diamond anniversaries, the language of the body can do wonders
for romance and infuse the good being of a relationship. Come
on, lover boys and gals out there, read on for some tips to
put a little bit of old fashion romance in your life!
The
simple but yet powerful tips are easy as ABC. Just constantly
practice it!
1)
SMILE
"Smile … though your heart is aching… Smile…"
Don't underestimate the power of your smile. Personal experiences
from friends and yours truly… say that a smile turns
on a man more than a pair of big tits! (Of course… that
is a HUGE PLUS factor!)
Be
it a shy smile, or a downward eye cast or even a tongue-licking-lips
smile, even the most cynical man cannot help but take a break
and look at you.
A
realistic relationship will have lots of disagreements and
arguments. When the situation arises, just stop a moment and
give your darling a smile! See how he reacts to you! Anything?
I bet you have never have a better way of making up!
2)
TOUCHING
Excuse me… heading says touching, not groping! So, get
those naughty thoughts out of your mind!
When
was the last time your dear run his fingers through your hair?
Or the moment he gently nudge your face with his fingers tenderly?
We
are not talking sexual touches nor your daily hand-in-hand
thing here.
You
know, the special touch reserves for one another whether you
are home alone or in a crowd. Those special times that bring
warm and tender thoughts when you just think about it.
Touching
or any body contact is also part of the "silent"
communication but yet means volume. Touching intimately brings
pleasure to both parties but most of all, sharing and discovering
the journey of a good healthy relationship.
Still
not convinced? Say… you got a problem here… think
about this: -
a) Massaging him when he is stressed. Don't ask but surprise
him . How does he react? I bet you he will swim the deepest
ocean and climb the highest mountain for you! Or… just
settle for that 2 carat diamond you saw at Selberan…
ha ha ha…
b) Your darling washing your hair, slowly massaging, cleansing,
rinsing and more cleansing and drying. Best part, helping
you combs it. My dear girlfriends, how do you feel? Like melted
chocolates? Aahhh… life is great huh?
3)
Endearments
Stop! Don't start with the "Ah Kau", "Ah Beng"
and "Ah Lian" thing here. However, you may proceed
if your first thoughts are "darling", "dear",
"sweetheart" and such.
Yeah,
yeah… it sounds sickening and too sweet. As a third party
in many invited dinners of married couples, I tend to develop
goose bumps when I hear all these gooey endearments. I was
like, "Get out of here and leave in peace for my stomach
to digest dinner, can or not???"
However,
when I fell in love once not too many moons ago, those goose
bums took a love dive!
My
ex-darling (don't ask me what happened… another story
altogether here) and I love to walk in shopping malls and
gardens. He would stop sometimes and say, " Sweetheart,
see this…" I can tell you that his special
way of addressing me still makes me smile to this day!
Many
guys and gals too feel awkward and shy using endearments after
marriage. Don't stop these special and heart warming words.
Use it frequently especially when your partner is emotionally
low or in an argumentative mood.
Hey,
look away from this page now and call him/ her out… pull
her into your arms and say "SWEETHEART."
Just remember, DON'T YELL!
All
right, my friends, I leave you with three simple steps first.
I will be back with more tips later.
Do
feedback to us here and tell us what you think too! We welcome
any comments and love to put your thought and sharing on this
page too!
Ciao,
fiona
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